WHO I AM ..

Hello, welcome to A Lovely Mess in this blog I will post about tips from my daughter’s experiences, easy recipes to make, DIY tutorials and more. Let me introduce myself, my name is Karla, I am 22 years old and my story began when I got pregnant of my first daughter named Kaitlyn during my sophomore year of University, when I noticed I was pregnant my mind was full of many things thinking about how my parents will react, my husband’s parents, if I was still going to school, etc. Now, I can say I am a very blessed person because by the time passed by everything started to be in order. My parents reacted like never before also my husband’s parents. Then, during my junior year I got pregnant of my second daughter named Renee now I am attending my last senior year of University which I am very excited because some day I will say all the ups & downs were worth it.

In general, my life has been filled with many ups and downs but I do not regret about anything because at the end I think what would be of my life if I did not get pregnant, my personality change a lot I grew mentally by being more mature, before I was pregnant my relationship with my mom was very far apart and now we are very close because I understand her better. In fact, nothing has change because I am still a student but compare to others there is not a perfect life and the time heals all.

The other day I was looking through Facebook and I found an image that caught my attention. The image had a message that said: Someone graduated at age 22 and got a job at 27; someone graduated at age 27 and already had a job. There is someone who is still single and has a son, some who married had to wait 10 years to be parents. There are those who have a partner and love another, there are those who have mutual love and there are nothing, and some are looking love. Everything works according to our watch: People can only live at their own pace. It may seem that your friends are ahead or that they are behind; but they are in their moment and you in yours. Live with patience, be strong and believe in yourself; you are not late, you are not early… you are in your time.

I really felt this message because my life has been a mess with love, my daughters are my world and I would not change anything.  Be patient with yourself and fulfill your dreams, never give up.